This is a picture of our Great, Great, Grandfather,James Ware,he was married twice, his first wife Elizabeth was an invalid and had no children by the time she died in 1856,they had a grocers shop in Loampit Vale,Lewisham,James re-married, his new wife Harriet Digby a childrens nursemaid was 22 years younger than James,they had ten children Benjamin,James,Rosa,Walter,Harriet,Harriet,William(our Great Grandfather) Mary,Bessie,Grace the last child died shortly after birth;
James decided to change the grocers shop into a pub which he called "The Earl Gray" he ran into debt and sold the pub to his nephew William Broadribb in 1870 and was bankrupted in 1872, reading between the lines having so many children must have put a huge strain on a man of his age, his youngest child was born when he was 62 years of age ,he died soon after in 1874 leaving his wife Harriet with nine children under the age of 15.